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I decided to write the book I always wanted to offer my customers and clients. Sex Yourself: The Woman’s Guide to Mastering Masturbation and Achieving Powerful Orgasms is just that book: For women who want more pleasure and those who love them and want to support them in gaining more enjoyment or even better orgasms with sex. It covers the important topics of erotic anatomy, explicit finger and toy techniques for solo-pleasure, enhancing orgasms and sharing sexy solo play with a partner. Even veterans of pleasure will learn new tips that to help (re)-discover their body. Topics also include how to get in the mood, spicing up your solo-sex practice and gaining insights into the best toys for whom and why. People often tell me that they are surprised at how much they did not know and how thrilled that they finally do! 176 pages.
My second book is on anal pleasure. 
My goal is to expand people’s options and pleasures around anal play- whether you want to explore internally or just venture around the outside. It is for people of all genders, sexes, orientations and pleasures. Chapters include anatomy, techniques, positions, toys, kink and anal pleasure, preparation and clean-up. It includes all the information you need to play safely, ensure pleasure and expand your sexual repertoire. Order here. 165 pages.
Interviews
Sex Education Secrets No One Talks About! Insights with Carlyle Jansen on The Truth with Mory Coco
Intimacy, Desire & Complexities of Sexual Connection with Carlyle Jansen on Reconnect with Laira Thomas
Jian Ghomeshi allegations open conversation about sexual consent and the law on CBC
Let’s Not Let the Jian Ghomeshi Scandal Give BDSM a Bad Name on VICE
How to Spice Up your Sex Life after Menopause on CityLine
The Unspoken Mental and Emotional Impacts of Menopause on CityLine
From Late Sex Bloomer to Unabashed Sex and Relationship Therapist on Virgin. Beauty. Bitch Podcast
From Being Scared of Sex To Becoming a Sex Institution with Carlyle Jansen on Sex Unleashed Podcast
Reaching Your Sexual Potential With Carlyle Jansen on Higher Sex Podcast
Mismatched Libi-D’Oh! with Carlyle Jansen on Sex Ed With Tim Podcast
Carlyle Jansen on Sex, Screening and Empowerment on Medium
Sex and Pleasure with Carlyle Jansen on The Bed Post Podcast with Erin Pim
Reawakening our Sexuality on Sex with Rebecca
Bringing Sexy Back on Sex With Rebecca
Amazing Anal & Prostate Play on Sex with Dr. Jess
Exploring Sex Toys with Carlyle Jansen on We Go There
Anal-Gasms for All Bodies on the Plug Podcast with Luna Matatas
Sex Yourself and Anal Sex Basics on The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Everything You Wanted to Know about Anal Sex with Carlyle Jansen on Vice
Articles About Me
The Toronto Star: Sex: It’s free, healthy and good for the soul
You’re Teaching Our Kids WHAT? in MACLEANS Magazine
SEC Talks with Carlyle Jansen on The Medium
Is the mainstreaming of sexual wellness liberating, or yet another thing for us to optimize? in the Globe and Mail
The rise of ethical porn: She chooses her co-star and the fantasy in The Globe and Mail
Publications
Sex Over 60: Optimal Sex Experiences Later in Life on the Good For Her Blog
What Love Language Do You Speak? Understanding Your Partner’s Preferences on the Good For Her Blog
Spontaneous and Responsive Desire: There is Nothing Wrong With You on the Good For Her Blog
Why It Can Be Hard to Say No on the Good For Her Blog
Consider the Curriculum: Why We Need Comprehensive Sex Ed in Schools on the Good For Her Blog
Confidence is a Skill: Learning to Love Yourself on the Good For Her Blog
How to Have Steamy Phone and Video Dates on the Good For Her Blog
The Wheel of Consent: Are You Giving, Taking, Allowing or Receiving on the Good For Her Blog
An Orgasm a Day: Ten Reasons to Masturbate Today on the Good For Her Blog
Can I Become Addicted to a Vibrator? on the Good For Her Blog
Sex on the Cycle on the Good For Her Blog
Is Honesty Always the Best Policy? On the Good For Her Blog
Erotic Assertiveness in the Era of #MeToo on the Good For Her Blog
Pornography: The Good, The Bad, and The Ethical on the Good For Her Blog
The Top Eight Sex Toy Myths Debunked on the Good For Her Blog
Is Sex Important to Your Relationship? in The Tonic
Talking to Your Partner About Sex on Good For Her Blog
The Top Eight Sex Toy Myths Debunked on the Good For Her Blog
If You Can’t Orgasm, You’re Not Alone in The EyeOpener
How Do I Get My Partner To Try New Things? on Good For Her Blog
Sad After Sex? You’re Not Alone on Good For Her Blog
Unlocking the Secrets of Shame in The Tonic
Are You Doing Your Kegels Incorrectly? on Good For Her Blog
The Shame about Shame in The Tonic
The Characteristics of Sexually Healthy Adults in The Tonic
Non-Binary Gender Identity in The Tonic
Ten Tips to Even More Pleasurable Anal Sex on Good For Her Blog
Two’s Company, Three’s a… on Non-monogamy in The Tonic
Coping with Loneliness in The Tonic
Condom Sense: The Ins And Outs of Rubbers on Good For Her Blog
Anal Sex Tips for First Timers on Good For Her Blog
Erotic Recipes: Step-by-Step Instructions for a Fun Sexual Experience
Erotic Recipe 2: Out And About
Erotic Recipe 3: Butt Seduction
Erotic Recipe 4: Sensual Bondage
Videos
TedX Talk – Redefining Relationships
Sexual Positions for G-Spot Stimulation
Learn about some stimulating positions for the g-spot in just a few minutes!
Pregnancy and Sex
4 minutes of on how your body changes during pregnancy.
Warming Up to Anal Sex
Get enjoyable and hot anal sex with your partner with these steps.
Penetrative Anal Sex
3 information-packed minutes on getting started with anal penetration
Enjoying your Vibe
Your vibe has a lot more uses than you think!
Talking To Your Kids About Sex
4 minutes of information for parents.
Multiple Orgasms for Men
An easy technique to find even more pleasure for yourself or with a partner.
Lubes
Learn about the different types of lubes and the best ways to use them.
Vaginismus and Painful Intercourse
Some simple solutions to make sex possible and fun again.
Boosting Your Libido
In a few minutes, figure out how to spark your desire and keep things smoldering!
Toys for Penises
4 minutes of fun introduction to toys you may not even known were out there! Explore your options.