Welcome

Carlyle JansenFor close to 20 years, I’ve been talking to people about sex. I have taught at numerous universities and have been an invited speaker at Sexuality and Health conferences. I’ve also been teaching workshops at Good For Her since before the doors opened in 1997!

In addition to multiple media appearances (including a Tedx talk), I also train sex educators and therapists on topics of sexual pleasure and sexual challenges.

Due to a mounting number of requests, I began offering  private coaching to individuals and with couples in 2000.

My training is extremely varied. I’ve gained incredible knowledge from hands-on programs that teach sex in ways that can never be gleaned from a book. I’ve has taken the Guelph Sex Therapy Training Program, where I am now an invited speaker.

sex yourselfPassionate about helping people reach their sexual potential, I have the expertise and ability to understand the complexity of our individual sexuality  as well as the simple ideas and techniques that can transform a challenge into a new exciting opportunity. My style is relaxed and professional, and helps my clients find deeper understanding of the issues at hand and optimal resolution.

My first book is Sex Yourself: The Woman’s Guide to Mastering Masturbation and Achieving Powerful OrgasmsLearn about our intricate erotic anatomy, varied techniques and options for pleasure, and how to maximize our orgasms. It is designed for women who want to learn about their own pleasure but is also great for partners to enhance their skills. This book will teach you a lot about “what you didn’t know you didn’t know” and how to enhance your sex life solo or partnered. Get your copy here and ask for it to be autographed and dedicated to your own pleasure!

anal sex basics

My second book, Anal Sex Basics is also available. All about anal pleasure for people of all orientations, desires, sexes and genders, it covers preparation, external play, internal play, positions, toys, prostates and more! Order your copy here and I can sign it for you before mailing out if you so request!